With a little effort, you can retrain your impulse to blurt out commonly used negative words and phrases in your speech in favor of using positive words that are carefully chosen and thoughtfully offered. For example, phrases like “There’s always room for improvement” and “I’ve seen better from you” are not helpful. In fact, those phrases suggest that someone’s actions or thoughts have come up short and don’t meet your expectations. You don’t want people to say those things to you, so stop saying that to others—instead, offer positive, helpful feedback and comments. Speak honestly but caringly. You’ll inspire greatness from others and also generate happiness for yourself too.